Hello Lucifeh: Thanks for sharing your concern here on PC. Welcome to PsychCentral! Honestly, I don't know as I have any particular insight into what may be going on with your stepdaughter. From my perspective, I would think this is something you & your wife need to be talking about openly & honestly. Then, perhaps, it is your wife who needs to be talking with her daughter regarding the inappropriateness of what your stepdaughter is doing. Some marriage & family counseling might be a good idea if this is something you could arrange & that your wife would agree to.

I don't know if you're simply here seeking advice with regard to this particular concern or if you plan to hang in here with us. (We hope you do.) However, assuming you plan to continue on, may I suggest you introduce yourself to the membership as a whole over in our New Members Introductions forum? Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/new-...introductions/

There's a lot of support that can be available here on PC. The more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are the chat rooms where you'll be able to interact with other members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.)

One additional forum that may be of interest to you would be the relationships forum. Here's a link to that forum as well:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/rela...communication/

So please keep posting!