Ug, seems rather extreme to me too. I mean, I was very serious in school and didn't have much time for partying, but seriously, college is the time to learn and experiment with all sorts of things (not just drugs and/or alcohol). Telling someone to enjoy this time of their life isn't a big offense, in my book.

But, it does depend on how you worded it. I agree with Divine. Just call him and explain that you just meant for him to enjoy himself during this very exciting time in his life. And to do what's right for him.

Hope you can patch it up.

Seesaw