Sorry, Tak but, I don't feel like reading all of that.
Now that you guys mention it it does kind of seem like this is a female-dominated forum and you really do have to be careful what you say around here and how much info you release compared to a lot of other forums online.
A female friend who got disgusted and left this forum told me about a forum called Male Survivor and said that the guys there were really supportive of each other. I still haven't checked it out yet because I've been too busy with other things but, I may give it a look soon.