Good morning,

My gf had a great suggestion for a mutual gift. She already had a small tattoo of an eponymous flower and her suggestion was that we each get tattoos that showed our eternal love and commitment. I had already bought her an elaborate diamond ring and I was planning on being with her forever.

I got the tattoo and I am very proud of it. I wanted to show the commitment and it is very cool and it means a lot to me. It includes her name in writing.

I offered to pay for her to just have my name tattooed through or near her existing tattoo.

To date she has not done it. I've asked her why and she has said money or since it's forever she wants to make sure it's something really good.

It's been almost 4 years. It bothers me and I have used it in our arguments. Not nicely, I should add.

I can't let it go.

What do you think?