I don’t have tattoos and wouldn’t get one of my life depended on it. Saying that, it’s ok if other people get tattoos but you can’t expect it from people. She changed her mind. Why, I don’t know.

Tattooing other people’s names on ones body is a tricky thing, as the concept of “forever”. My daughter is a widow, she loved her husband deeply. He passed. She grieved and now is in a new serious relationship. Having her late husband’s name on her body...might not be cool.

I’d hate if my husband had his ex wive’s name on his body. You don’t need a tattoo to show commitment. Now if your gf shows signs of not wanting to commit (not related to tattoos)then there might be more to all this.

You bought a ring and proposed? Did she say yes? Then are you engaged? If not was just a regular ring? Not sure how is purchase of a ring relates to tattoos?