To me at the moment it is extreme chaos and it has been hard to make ends meet and function day to day with two of us working at. Our vehicle isn't functional and needs repairs and I can't get it fixed until I go back to work.

I just feel working on the financial issues and focusing on fixing our problems is more important the a vacation of choice.

The vacation didn't have to be right now! I know I get called back to work in 6 weeks and things would be better. Plus I was doing side work in the evenings to make some extra money, but now I can't for a week because I have to be home with the kids at night.

It is a unique situation and a total mess. It is hard work and stressful juggling all the financial issues along raising 4 kids for 2 people.