How have people dealt with jealousy and learning to trust someone? My boyfriend has turned his life around.. made more friends in the process.. yes, some female friends. I'm still depressed and miserable. How can I learn to trust? I'm not even worried about cheating. What if he's flirting with some?.. or they're sending sexy pictures? What if he just really likes them? And he's said they're cool or funny.

I struggle making abd maintaining friends. I've starting chatting with this guy from a social group I'm hoping to go along to so I can make more friends of my own. Why do I feel guilty when I know it's harmless chat and I've been open about being in a relationship? I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I also really struggle befriending females. I don't know why but I find it very difficult. Maybe cause females are clicky? I'm not sure