well if you were to find someone that is turned off by it, unless for some reason they were in every other way perfect it would be kind of a sign that there would be trouble down the road. Just need to find people that aren't so opposed to it.
Me, shoot, I watch it, and pretty much use it same as you and go further in the sense that some of the art I do is quite erotic though kind of stops short of being hard core. so I personally have no issues with it though within that realm I do have limits as to what I find acceptable.. but that's a subject for a nother thread.