I don't get aniti-porn rhetoric. The only way I'd ever be against it is if the persons involved in the filming, aka the actors, were not consenting about it. I'm not talking about rape fantasy porn, that's just another genre in the industry.
I'm talking about the treatment of the actress primarily. I know they are being paid to preform a certain series of tasks/acts, and sometimes a certain actress is in high demand for a certain genre or genres.
I'm moreso delving into the deep seedy underbelly of the porn industry and all that it entails. I'll not get into specifics, because I don't want to trigger anyone, but I'll just say that sex trafficking involves a lot of porn making.
Back to the topic on hand though, as I feel I'm derailing this thread now....I watch porn about 2-4 times a week. It's more often 2 than 4. I used to have more of a libido, but it's kind of mellowed out a tiny bit. I blame the anti-depressants for that.
As for what my boyfriend thinks about me watching it, he's okay with it. Of course, we've been long distance for a while so it's sort of a necessary thing, and I find sharing our favorite genre specific porn brings us closer together as a couple. I'd love to watch porn with him in person, I think that would be extremely hot. We could find a porn we both like and try and act out the scenes together!
Besides, it could be a huge motivating factor for him because he's a complete "has not held hands with a girl yet" virgin, and this might give him confidence, relax him and help to set the mood. I've also heard it gives men a sort of competitive drive when they see porn and are having sex, like they need to prove they are more of a man than the male porn star and get their partner to climax faster or something.
Then again, it depends on the guy I suppose. For some it might just make them feel inferior to see a male porn star's "equipment" when comparing it to their own.