Hello,

Recently I was try to understand someone who is very clingy, blaming me/others etc. So I started reading general literature which lead me toward Manipulative people. The more I started reading, the direction went towards Narcissist Personality Disorder. The scary thing is that I have lot of these traits in me. Lot of self reflection before I can say that "I am a Narcissist".

I know for sure that I got it from my Dad. So much of my life, I have lived with the NPD behavior and thinking. I am feeling very ashamed about this self discovery! How do I change? I do work hard and do not cheat. However, the few traits that are bother me. The "entitlement" trait makes me so complacent and stops me from learning more and doing more. I think I "know it all".

How do I change my thinking/behavior patterns for the remainder of my life?

Any advice and pointers to help is much appreciated.

Thank you in advance.

Regards,

K