So it is doable. Good to know. How about indulgence in controlled environment? Does it lead to an escalation of desires?
And how to make sure your partner doesn't spill your secrets in the presence of friends and associates? As much as I find my partner loyal, caring and loving, I sometimes tend to think she does humiliate me intentionally in the presence of some men, unfortunately, her son is one of them. The worst thing, she does not even want to hear when I try to make her see the social cues she might overlook as a woman.
This is the area in which I find her cold and disloyal, like her alter ego.