Hi....I'm brand new, so please forgive any errors, and I'm open to suggestion. I've recently studied this issue, masochism, and feel that it comes from a learned response in early years. To me, if that permeates to your professional career, or other areas it can lead to "passivity." Some articles say that 'what gets your motor running" sexually has many arms and legs out there.
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Originally Posted by cklasik
Hi
I am starting tro realise that an erotic terms I am a masochist, and that some of my past bad life decisions had masochistic underpinnings.
This makes me start to think if satisfying those needs in a controlled environment, ie. with my partner to an extent that suits both of us, is a way to get a better control of what happens at work ( I am often 'beaten up' by manipulative people and their followers) - and do I have a chance to get promoted to higher ranks, or is it a cul de sac.
When does the 'monster' grow our of proportions and when does it turn into a useful resource of energy?
Are there any CEOs and country leaders who are masochistic but somehow managed to harness the energy?
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