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Default May 30, 2018 at 01:58 PM
 
Thank you all for your input.

Daily phone calls are not the problem. If I don't call her, she would be worried and hurt. She would call me, concerned. My husband, her dad, calls our daughter 3 nights a week. If he doesn't call one night, our daughter is sad about having missed speaking with him.
When my mother was alive I called her every day. I would not have dreamed of not doing so.


I have really worked on this issue and come to the conclusion that my daughter is truly overworked, overstressed, and does not have enough hours in her days. I have decided not to take her behavior personally, to accept that it is not at all about me. That does leave me somewhat concerned, however, about her motivation to spend her life doing something that causes her such extreme stress.
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