It's fine to be gender fluid or agender. I am ostensibly male but have female leaning parts and I am comfortable with being a genderblur as I've never identified with 'trad' male identities or macho crap (actually I quite like to use the term 'CISSY as in 'Sissy' (or CIS ish) to explore the blurriness around the edges of CIS ness since seeing the wonderful Grayson Perry talking about owning and taking back his 'sissy' ness, which was always used as a bully comment to males like us who don't act particularly masculinely - I am mostly CIS but with some feminine leanings and love the idea of taking back the Sissy slur by sissifying CIS)