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Eribrite88
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Member Since: Jun 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 16
5 yr Member
Default Jun 14, 2018 at 09:04 AM
 
The only reason I'm putting this in here is because it happened at a meeting, but if it doesn't belong in here please move it. So I met this AA member about a year ago......easy banter from the start, he was touchy feely but it wasn't creepy........it was more.........comforting in a way. Actually was proud of myself that I could handle someone being touchy feely with me. So he pops up randomly at the meetings I attend.........again, didn't think it was creepy.........probably should have thought it was creepy but I didn't. Fast forward to Tuesday night, he pops up at my home group........we were bantering back and forth before the meeting started, and when the meeting was over I go in for a friendly hug. I hug a lot of the male AA members at my home group, I thought nothing of going in for a friendly hug. ............then he flipped the script on me. He pulls me in way too close for way too long, he was breathing heavy in my ear, his face buried in my neck..........and then I swear I felt him kiss my neck. I was frozen.........I tried to pull away but he just held me closer.........and so I froze. I didn't know what to do. He eventually pulls away and said I smell good. And I just walk away.

I talked in chat about this, that was super helpful because Tuesday night this made me crash..........I talked in counseling about this, and I talked to my sponsor about this..........

But the problem I'm having is that my sponsor is challenging me to say something to him.........and I don't know if I'm comfortable doing that alone.........
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