It's not my brothers fault that his cousin is off the rails. We had a tough up bringing. I disagree with the way you were cut off completely for not even attempting that apprenticeship that your dad got you. However, I would have killed for that chance. You didnt even try. My brother stuck with his terrible boss barely getting enough work to keep afloat. Don't bring up his phase that many young men go through around here.
My brother also took a second job behind a bar while getting his apprenticeship for a short time. Sorry you didn't get your savings account but you must understand that I blew my top because I had to get a second job cleaning while working my main job and college. I never had an account set up for me. Grandad wanted to give YOU his car. You could have traded it in. But mum and dad took it of course.