I feel for you, hope your surgery goes well! i can relate to you abut your mom, I had the same issue with mine only i went the other way with top surgery (male breast augmentation) I had mine enlarged, believe me my mom was not pleased at all that her son was getting breasts. she did come around and help support me while I was recovering, her amy my sister both helped, even though she was against the procedure I was her son and she came through big time for me! She has come around a bit, still not happy about my looks but supports me to a point.