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Old 08-04-2018, 08:49 AM
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Default Re: i must have ruined my therapy

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Originally Posted by guileless View Post
Thanks. I realize it's not my fault but had a momentarily lapse back into that damn state of powerlessness.

He didn't let me be myself. My parents didn't let me be myself, the person who I was meant to become. The abuse and neglect were atrocious. I thought i could discover myself in therapy, but he did not accept my feelings and in effect crushed my newly found autonomy.

I asked him repeatedly what happened to the therapy. He never gave me a reasonable answer, so if I want an answer, I don't have much choice other than to try to figure it out here.
óif you r talking about gushing out feelings about the therapist, he or she may be trying to quash them fastest by giving the cold shoulder. That is classic behavior modification. Just donít go there. If they oo and ah over it, on one level they r encouraging that path when u need to switch to another one FAST.
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