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Originally Posted by luvyrself
—if you r talking about gushing out feelings about the therapist, he or she may be trying to quash them fastest by giving the cold shoulder. That is classic behavior modification. Just don’t go there. If they oo and ah over it, on one level they r encouraging that path when u need to switch to another one FAST.
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No, it happened over a period of years rather than gushing out feelings. I never made the relationship more than it was or expected him to reciprocate. He did not say I couldn't talk about the feelings but it seemed to cause negative countertransference in the end.
Fixing the link from my post above:
Therapist'''s reaction to erotic transference : psychotherapy
This is a conversation by therapists about negative feelings they have about clients who have erotic transference.