For those of you that have intense transference feelings or otherwise for their T's do you think some of it is ever 'real' love you are also feeling? I mean I know that transference is based on the past but do you think some of it is based on the here and now and the relationship that is in the room? Yes, yes I know we don't really 'know' our T's....but when do we ever fully know someone anyway when we fall for them.