So I experience traits of Borderline Personatily Disorder . Just wondering anyone out there that experiences BPD or if it’s even a BPD thing.

Is that I notice I have a lot of crushes of opposite sex.
So for example I have developed this crush on this one guy at my sport club but then I had this sexual thoughts about this new man therapist we have at DBT group.
I feel guilty because I’m in a relationship already and well my crush at the sport club it has manifested in my dreams which is really annoying, during the day it’s hard to stop you know day dream.

To be honsent it’s really annoying and I do feel guilty and anxious.

Just wondering why? Is it BPD ? Or some thing else. How do I over come this?