It's possible that you're non-binary, or a man. Only you can decide that. But I want you to know, it's very normal to have complicated feelings about transitioning. It's normal to feel strongly about certain parts of transition, and not others. So if that's what's making you hesitant to call yourself a man, I want you to know that's something most trans guys struggle with.


It all depends on what makes you happiest. And you can change your mind about what that is. If being a man or a woman doesn't fit you, then you don't have to be either one! Non-binary people struggle with those feelings, too.


Something that helped me come to terms with beings trans was this little exercise: If the primal force or being of your choice came down from their throne, and gave you permission to be what you wanted, how would you feel?