I've been out as trans for several months now, but people in my family still use she/her pronouns for me. I am still in the middle of transitioning, and don't mind terribly. But as I get more facial hair, and start getting further into transition, I feel like it's going to get awkward.
I was thinking about waiting until I get top surgery to start really correcting people in earnest. But I'm unemployed right now, due to mental health, so saving up for that is going to take... more than a while.

How do I get more confident in correcting my family? How do I have those conversations in the moment, without freezing up?