I'm wondering if anyone who has been a victim of therapist abuse or is familiar with it can share some more subtle signs that the grooming process has begun. There are red flags, like overtly sexualizing the patient, but before the flags become red there are cues that something is wrong. Usually they go ignored because they don't even consciously register as an issue. What does this look like? When and how do/did you recognize that something was wrong and continue the therapy anyway? Like, when did you start feeling uncomfortable but brush it off because the flag wasn't red enough?