Male here, age 56 living in Salem, Oregon now - from Albuquerque, NM. Seeking support from other males dealing with problem wives. We both have had addiction issues (mine has been sex addiction/ cross dressing issues , though on hold and suppressed well for now). But my wife is a major hoarder. All she wants to do is shop and collect, spend 4-6 hours a day at Goodwills - buy this, buy that. I can stop being an enabler if I could find a job, that would keep her shopping down, it is hard to find a job at my age, gotta keep trying.
Thanks for reading