[QUOTE=LuckyCupofTea;6259372...
And now...exactly what I expected would happen...he is suddenly acting "normal"....so of course now I am out of fuel. I've started building a wall for myself....detaching...and that wall may be over 3/4ths of the way built. I don't know if I have it in me.

I still maintain that he needs to move out...and I don't know exactly what that means for US...but....it's way more than just "some space." Are you kidding me?

It's hard to explain this without all of you having been flies on the wall in our house....wow. Someone acts like that and then suddenly "snaps out of it"...

I'm sorry. I don't buy it. It's not fair. It doesn't work like that.[/QUOTE]

Sounds so much like my son...

"What's your problem? Yeah, I know I was bad, I get it but I'm not gonna do that anymore. Get over it, already"

My experience that unless one is brought to one's knees in full realisation of the pain our sins - whatever they be - have brought to others, there's no true remorse. The change is short-lived.

Be good to yourself