This all happened about a week ago. The problem is that Connie wasn't just a friend. We had been in a serious relationship for the past eight years. But now she and Amber have labelled me an emotional abuser when I had no idea I was doing it and without giving me a chance to correct it now that it's been pointed out. I'm not allowed to contact her and any attempt to apologize on the night it happened was just shut down as being insincere.

A big part of autism(at least for me) is being unable to navigate social situations. I have a difficult time checking my own behavior and gauging how it affects people. This is something that all three of them knew about me.