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Originally Posted by stopdog
I have done that. I told the woman she was a just a consultant and therapists are a dime a dozen etc. I don't see that is a bad thing to remind them.
I doubt it fazed her any.
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I've told him before that he's probably had very attached clients, but they just haven't told him. That it took a long time before I told even ex-T about my attachment for ex-MC. I'm mostly open about it with current T because I've been through it before and know that keeping it inside often just intensifies it (at least for me). So if it's the first time in therapy for one of his clients (likely, as he sees lots of teens), they may not realize what's going on and/or feel like they can talk about it with him.
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Idk If I buy that. Maybe he has some not so good attachment experiences or he's never had one with such intensity as yours... but none at all in all those years? Seems very unlikely, even if it's mostly teens. My T has only been a T for 5 years and has dealt with it quite a bit in the past already.