My experience with those couples that pursue cuckold fantasies in committed M/F relationships is that the male is usually (not always) devastated mid-way into the actual cuckolding.

I do know of couples that thrive in this mild masochist/sadist type of relationship, though.

I’ve never understood the whole cuckolding fantasies. I’m more of the sharing type and don’t think of sharing partners as any sort of ‘betrayal.’ I think that your last question is the same as on the lips of the majority of those men who follow through on fulfilling cuckold fantasies, “Why did I participate in this act that has ruined my life for a few, brief moments of pleasure?” There’s so little consideration given the female’s POV in these fantasies and most monogamous women dismiss acting upon this male-centric fantasy.

Maybe you’re not seeking betrayal; maybe you’re seeking humiliation? Maybe you’d like your sexual prowess to be questioned? Your junk ridiculed?

Something to think about...