Jesus just asks you to love others as you would love yourself; to do unto others as you would have others do unto you. So if you were horrible to someone, would you want them to stay? What if you were trying to get them to leave you alone? KWIM? What is your husband really telling you?

I really identify with that line in Thelma and Louise, where one of them says, "my husband wasnt sweet to me, and look what happened." My husband wasnt sweet to me either. My priest offered me an annulment.