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Originally Posted by Desiree2006
I too have a problem with people who persist in triggering behaviour after I have asked them to stop. I either try to ignore them or end up arguing with them...but I end up feeling hurt when I resort to arguing....don't know how to deal with them effectively.
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Hi Desiree, sorry to hear how you are feeling. I too have this problem.
The advice I have been given, in the past, is too be assertive. It is just not the easy when my brain is so much slower than the people who throw abuse at you.
Would be great if we could all try and put some sentences together, see if any of them will work.
I will try one to start..... I find it helpful when people speak to me in a kinder and loving way.