I'm sorry, but you have very poor character. An affair for two years? You could have divorced your wife! It's not all up to her to divorce. You could have filed the papers. And now your poor wife is getting heavier, and my guess? She's probably very depressed over your affair! Disgusting. Sorry that I am being judgmental, but I cannot help it after reading your story. I don't condone cheating or affairs, and it's despicable behavior. You also sound very shallow. What about your wife's character as a person? Who is she as a person? You're in love with Tina's looks? And her ability to cook and clean? Man oh man. I know I shouldn't post this, but I cannot help but respond. It made me very angry and sad about the state of this world and the people in it.