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Old 10-09-2018, 08:59 PM  
TheOutsider90
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Default Re: Husband lashed out on me

Wow, I had never heard of this before, but after reading those articles I definitely see some connections between his behavior and gaslighting. He definitely tried to deflect blame and not take responsibility for what he does, and even though I haven't proven it, I'm almost positive that he has lied. And I have definitely questioned myself- did I spend the money and forget? Could I have dropped it? Could my brother have taken it? I do feel crazy sometimes when we argue even if I have a valid reason to be upset, and one thing he always gets mad about is that I don't trust him. I don't really believe that he's trying to hurt me, but that he's trying to protect himself. Which I know is selfish of him. We've only been married 6 months... I don't know what to do.
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