Hate the word dating. Sounds like some preparations for the bedroom. I have make friends & actually do *date* technically, I guess. But always guys I have met thru other activities. Something like a class or recently political activities or thru hobbies. Guess I've always met them with other people around. Can get other people's impression as well. Recently learned to play pool. So I've met one of the guys for games at the clubhouse then went out to eat afterwards. Get too stressed out at meeting at his or my place.