Just realized this is unfair. I'm the one that has been insisting that the bike ride is relaxing, it takes the place of our daily walk, etc. He would have me drive and drop him off if I requested it. I am only say things like this about my husband and friend who I spend all my nonwork time with. He is very good to me so the comments are very unfair. Is this a symptom of anxiety (about his reactions that I imagine and get anxious anticipating), bipolar, or a personality disorder. This is why I shouldn't post on PC. I feel like I just bad mouthed him on here this morning then made him breakfast followed by relaxing quality time.