Thank you for all the replies and I'm sorry that you all feel the same way!!!
I get the same sick feelings if men look at me. I don't want to feel victimized and I truly don't see myself as a victim. But when it comes to sexuality, I feel like men are sly and will do anything it takes to sleep with a woman. I like to be friendly but have been blamed for being a 'tease' in the past .. even when that has not been my intention.
I guess I have all sorts of bad feelings towards men in general and I hope that one day I can get past them and see them as human beings... not beings to avoid at all costs.