Well, it is true that many men just want to get laid and view women as sexual objects, especially when they are younger and hormonal, but not ALL men. There are good, very decent and kind, non- abusive men. The key is to keep alerts up when dating, be discerning and aware but not totally jaded. Unfortunately there is a lot of crap to weed through, but good men DO exist.. ones who will be respectful of you. Take your time and allow yourself healing from past abuse. I think it’s only natural after abuse to fear men.. in time you can heal though.