Hello confused: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral.

Two other forums, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the relationships forum & the psychotherapy forum. Here are links to these forums:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/rela...communication/

https://forums.psychcentral.com/psychotherapy/

I'm afraid there's not a lot I can offer with regard to what you are experiencing with your husband. However here are links to a selection of 10 articles, from PsychCentral's archives, that I thought might be of some help or at least interest:

The Unique Features of Complex PTSD

C-PTSD and Interpersonal Relationships

Stonewalling in Couples: When You or Your Partner Shuts Down

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/savvy...ssistic-abuse/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/affect-...on-and-c-ptsd/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/welln...dium=popular17

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/welln...nship-burnout/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/welln...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/resources/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/talkin...about-suicide/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

P.S. One additional on-line resource I have seen suggested here on PC is the website 7 Cups of Tea. If you're not familiar with it, you might check that out. Here's a link:

https://www.7cups.com/