Well the jealousy issue was brought up, I felt super awkward but he handled it well. Thankfully I was paranoid for nothing. I was completely honest about WHY I was feeling jealous etc

I asked about his comfort level on me sharing feelings for him and it didn't go so well. Basically just said he would seem cold and distant and likely have no response. He didn't see a need for me to share it. So that was disappointing but at least I know he is still very uncomfortable with that stuff so I can't push it.