This is something I really struggle with. I really want to know if he does, but then again if he did tell me that he had those type of feelings towards me, I feel like that would make the relationship unsafe. I have this problem where I feel inadequate or like a failure if any male isn’t attracted to me, which is obviously ridiculous because one person won’t be everyone’s type.. so I always looks for subtle signs that prove they are, which is terrible, but my t is very professional so of course I don’t get those hints from him. Which I should just be ok with but for some reason I can’t be. It’s like that would prove he cares or something.