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Originally Posted by Salmon77
I find it surprising that several people find the idea so disgusting. Of course I agree it's icky if a T tells clients about their sexual attraction or brings it into therapy in any way. But it seems natural and inevitable to me that a T might have the occasional stray thought about it. I wonder if the people who think it's gross see their T as a parental figure?
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I don't see T as a parental figure, but the intimacy of our relationship makes sexual attraction icky to me. Like dating my gynecologist or graduate advisor, and then there's the married guy aspect on top of that. I don't want sexual attraction from people who are married and I think that's icky too. In general it's about the inappropriateness of sexual attraction based on the relationship and the fact that he's married. The fact that I have CSA in my background is irrelevant.