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Default Oct 21, 2018 at 03:48 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Aviza View Post
As in she is going to die soon. She's complained about chest pain and refuses to see a doctor, just self treating meds and aspirin. She's grumpier, less active. Says she doesn't want heroic efforts. And she is eating but my dad are lunch before he died.
My mom passed away June 9th of this year,she no longer had the will to live. Ever since my dad passed away she hasnt been how do I say this right.I heard that she was nothing but skin and bones,I cried for months after she died,I miss her so much despite the fact that most of the time we didnt see each other that much Then again she was 90,she didnt want any help she could have had a operation but my son said no he didnt want to make her suffer even more.Even my mom refused it she had asked everyone to ask God to take her ,I couldnt fill out her request but towards the end when everyone was telling me how sick and bad she look I just told God I will leave it in his hands,She wouldnt eat,drink ,or even get out of bed ,Two weeks before her death she didnt even want to speak to me it wasnt me she just wanted to be left to die.How sad is that my son saw her take her last breathe.I am sorry your mom isnt well.If u do need to talk I am here for you.
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