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Originally Posted by lucozader
Thinking about this is really underlining how bad my self-image has become in recent years because there's no way I could imagine that either of them were ever attracted to me in the slightest.
I used to be quite a seductive person but I've lost that aspect of myself. No-one wants to f*** me any more.
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Maybe there is a silver lining in this? It may not be all that bad not to be so seductive as a default behavior, not to use seduction/sex to automatically relate to a lot of people. Maybe it's a more mature way and it's also better that people do not notice you as a sexual object primarily? Also, I think that the people who don't necessarily express sexual attraction in any situation can sometimes be healthier and more complex characters.