I've met people recently who treat me like my opinion of them is vitally important. When I don't respond to them in they way they wish, then they try really hard to get a reaction out of me. I am making a point to notice their good points. One of these people was treated very badly by her family, and I wonder if I remind her of her father- and perhaps that is the reason way she acts the way she does around me.
I'm ambivalent about how to act. Sometimes I feel like making an issue of it, but I remain silent because I'm not sure what to say and I don't want to make things worse for her.