Hi Parva,
Thanks for sharing. I too had a sexual relationship with my therapist, and it ended badly. I'm also shocked how often it actually happens - far more often than we realize.
Just a reminder for those in Canada - your therapist is forbidden from any sexual relationship with you for a minimum of two years after ending therapy, OR for as long as you remain vulnerable.
There is no gray area here. It is black and white.
Take care of yourselves, because like Parva says, no one will catch you when everything goes wrong.