That must have been so incredibly painful and devastating for you. I hope you found a good therapist after her. I can't believe she didn't have any fall out from it.
I understand why you felt the need to warn us but you know, regardless of fantasies and desires, it is absolutely the therapist's responsibility to maintain boundaries and protect us. Look at the responses above, many of us would do it in a heartbeat, despite the warning. The therapist is fully culpable in this situation.