Ok, first of all, I'm from Europe, so state ethics board in not valid in here, there are different laws, but still we say 2 year period between therapy ending and relationship is the minimum. That being said, I understand that generally it is like You say and I agree it should be. There are different relations, different therapists, different states of minds though. Sometimes the consciousness of a client is bigger, sometimes it's really very small and related to some child trauma's.

That's why I generally agree with You. I only say that in my situation, if I did some move on him after the therapy ends, I would take the responsibility and I would not report my T. I won't do it because I am conscious it wouldn't be ethical for him and wouldn't be good for me.