You know, the real problem of sharing these kind of experiences in place like this is, is that people tendo to judge things in a black or white way without even thinking: they will tell you tour T is harassing you and you should deffinitely dump him and five minutes late, that everything is your immagination and wishful thinking. That is because nobody really knows the details. One should always be honest and listen to his intuition. The truth usually is somewhere in the middle.