My mother keeps reminiscing about when I was a kid up through high school and I barely have any fragments of memories of those times. Here’s a 70 year old person who is forgetful remembering tons of things with details and names from eons ago.
I feel defective.
Don’t get me totally wrong, every now and then I would get a snippet of a visual memory for a second or a “hey I know that” then gone again.
A lot of these multiples on Facebook groups have really good memories it seems like they know all their alters names, places, inner world construction, their past....and I lucky to remember this morning.
Just saying...this is just how I think (or lack of I suppose)- this is our normal.