I am also tired of taking care of and codependent to my 31 mentally ill drug addicted daughter. She is sober right now but just this morning she was complaining how her life is so bad and all she wants to do is go get high. She's lonely and has nothing. and some how this is my fault.
No wonder she's lonely,she is mean and manipulative.
I think I will set a goal of spending just 5 minutes a day with her. Because on the 6th minute I want to smack her.